Gratitude 23Feb15 Sex and Real Life

Sex is amazing. If you connect with someone and your chemistry matches, sex can be fantastic. The feeling can bring forth desire and effects curling toes and exploding fireworks in your brain.

Sex is like any other drug. It can become addicting. It can become unhealthy when used in the wrong way. If the experience of sex becomes a vehicle to control someone or as a means to escape reality, it becomes like any other drug.

The raw fact about sex is, like any other addiction, you eventually will come down from the high. Whether you believe your penis or vagina is golden. Or you believe yourself to be a sexual genius, there will come (no pun intended) that sex ends. And you go back to the real deal of living life.

It is a reminder that sex is a small piece of the relationship puzzle. The essential elements of a healthy relationship are trust, respect and honest communication. It is those pieces of a relationship that can make for a more enhanced and healthy sexual experience.

And in the infamous words of Forrest Gump, “That’s all I have to say about that.”

Today I am thankful ..

  • I am content and at peace
  • New neighbors have a dog that is fun to watch
  • I am hoping to hang with my best friend for lunch

With the numerous articles about sex recently around the movie 50 Shades of Grey; it is important to keep the sexual experience in perspective. I don’t care what color your play room is, or what your safe word may be; reality is waiting for you when you are done.

affectionately yours, Laura

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